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The Kindness of Not Knowing
On resting inside uncertainty Sometimes what feels most uncomfortable isn’t the absence of answers — but the quiet pressure to have them. To know what we want. To know where we’re going. To know who we are becoming. We learn early that clarity is safety . That not knowing means being behind. That certainty is something we’re supposed to reach, as quickly as possible. And so when we don’t know, we often turn that state against ourselves. But not knowing is not a failure of

lindabardo
Feb 22 min read


You Don’t Have to Be Ready Yet
On growing, ripening, and moving gently toward what calls you There is a quiet pressure many of us carry. A soft but persistent voice that whispers: “I’ll start when I’m ready.” “I’ll move when I feel more certain.”“ I’ll allow myself to want this once I’ve figured it out.” And so we wait. Not because we are unwilling — but because we believe readiness must come before movement. But what if readiness is not a requirement? What if it’s something that arrives while we are al

lindabardo
Jan 232 min read
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