On resting inside uncertainty Sometimes what feels most uncomfortable isn’t the absence of answers — but the quiet pressure to have them. To know what we want. To know where we’re going. To know who we are becoming. We learn early that  clarity is safety . That not knowing means being behind. That certainty is something we’re supposed to reach, as quickly as possible. And so when we don’t know, we often turn that state against ourselves. But not knowing is not a failure of