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The Kindness of Not Knowing
On resting inside uncertainty Sometimes what feels most uncomfortable isn’t the absence of answers — but the quiet pressure to have them. To know what we want. To know where we’re going. To know who we are becoming. We learn early that clarity is safety . That not knowing means being behind. That certainty is something we’re supposed to reach, as quickly as possible. And so when we don’t know, we often turn that state against ourselves. But not knowing is not a failure of

lindabardo
Feb 22 min read


The Difference Between Resting and Escaping
Why true rest doesn’t numb you — it brings you back Sometimes you stop moving. We finally sit down. We reach for your phone. The screen lights up softly in our hands. From the outside, it looks like rest. And yet, when we put the phone down, we don’t feel restored. We feel a little scattered. A little farther away from ourselves than before. Not because we did something wrong. But because not everything that looks like rest actually lets you rest. When rest quietly turns in

lindabardo
Jan 242 min read
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