On resting inside uncertainty Sometimes what feels most uncomfortable isn’t the absence of answers — but the quiet pressure to have them. To know what we want. To know where we’re going. To know who we are becoming. We learn early that  clarity is safety . That not knowing means being behind. That certainty is something we’re supposed to reach, as quickly as possible. And so when we don’t know, we often turn that state against ourselves. But not knowing is not a failure of

Why transitions feel heavy — and how to stay with yourself while nothing is settled yet There is a particular kind of tiredness that doesn’t come from doing too much, but from  not knowing where you belong anymore . Nothing is clearly wrong. And yet, nothing feels right. You are no longer who you were — but you are not yet who you are becoming. This is the space in between. And it can feel tender, confusing, unbearably heavy at times. ⸻ The quiet weight of in-between times Th